Based on the video, here's a summary of the dating strategy being discussed:

The speaker advises men that a good strategy for modern dating is to focus on being more attractive to fewer women rather than being less attractive to a larger number of women.

He explains that if a man can become extremely attractive to even a small percentage of women, say 1%, that still represents millions of potential partners, which is more than enough. While this niche approach means that 99% of women might not be interested, the 1% who are will be strongly attracted to him.

The speaker argues it's better to be the first-choice "specialty" for a select group than a second or third option for a broader audience. This focused appeal creates more genuine opportunities and "optionality" in dating.