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In the video, the speaker recalls a time in his thirties when he often asked women what they looked for in a man. He explains he did this out of a genuine desire to be what women wanted, hoping it would increase his chances of finding a fulfilling relationship.

The speaker says women mentioned qualities like loyalty, kindness, and making them feel safe. However, he realized later that what they often left out was that these qualities were desired in men they were already attracted to.

He states that a man being kind, gentle, and loyal is not enough to create attraction if it doesn't already exist. Attraction, the speaker emphasizes, needs to come first. He believes that this omission can mislead men, making them think being romantic, kind, and patient will be enough, but these nice guy tendencies don't transform indifference into desire. Instead, men need to focus on being attractive.